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Our Mission

Firefighting is a noble profession.  And also one that takes an emotional toll sometimes at the expense of marriages and family life.  Our Mission is to honor, strengthen, support and encourage fire service marriages and families.   

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Who We Serve...

Whether you are a firefighter or a significant other, male or female, struggling or just wanting to be a part of a good community that is positive, uplifting and supportive of your choices to honor your marriage and family, this is for you.


Our Services...

With professionalism, integrity, top quality programs and a positive environment, we offer:

  • Events - both live and virtual including our exclusive couples weekend, Flame Fest
  • Free Online resources about marriage and family life specifically related to the ups and downs of the fire service
  • The Fire Wife Sisterhood - A private wives support community with access to additional bonus resources
  • Rescue My Marriage program (currently only for wives)
  • And all things for the fire family - discounts, activities and more.

DIY: Spoil Your Spouse All Year Long

Yes Valentine's Day is coming but you also have birthdays, anniversaries, mothers / fathers day and many other holidays for which you need a creative, inspiring and meaningful gift for your spouse. Here's the latest best offer from The Dating Divas.  Because their... read more

The “D” Word

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We're talking about the "D" word and I don't mean Dallas.  It's the word that signifies you are Done with marriage.  Desire is gone.  Damage is done.  You know what word it is.  Divorce. In the fire service the divorce rate is high and sadly, many of you have already... read more

Join the Fire Wife Sisterhood

The Fire Wife Sisterhood is the largest national community for wives, fiancées and girlfriends of firefighters.  Membership includes access to private communities, marriage mentoring, special group activities for fitness, book clubs, Rescue Pack exchanges and more.

In this community you will find friendship with women who understand your fire family lifestyle.   By joining, your membership fee helps to fund the programs here at FireFamily.Life.

Our goal is for you to have a safe, encouraging place to find fun, friendship and support with other fire wives.

For details on all the benefits of membership, click here.

Fire Wife Sisterhood Posts

Care Mail, Volunteer Family Guides and Members Address Updates

Our Fire Wife Care Mail was assembled based on addresses we pulled on December 20th. As a reminder, Care Mail is a twice a year package for Basic and Plus members and 4 times a year for Flame and Giving level members.  (Membership details are here) Volunteer Fire...

Flame Fest 2014 – Firefighter Marriage Panel Video

Firefighter Marriage Panel from Flame Fest 2014 Featuring: Jeff & Karen Dill of Firefighter Behavioral Health Alliance David and Julie Bevers, Engineer and Marriage Mentor in the Fire Wife Sisterhood David Soler, Firefighter Toolbox Retired FDNY Chief, John...

Maple Bacon Cookies

By: Billie Pock Yield: 3 dozen cookies Ingredients 3/4 cup butter, softened 1 3/4 cup light brown sugar 1/2 tsp kosher salt 2 eggs 2 tsp maple extract 2 1/2 cup all purpose flour 1/2 tsp baking soda 1/2 tsp baking powder 1 cup semi-sweet morsels 4 thick slices bacon,...


Currently Closed for the Holidays. Reopening in early January for Valentines Orders!

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About the Founders, Lori & Dan Mercer

The first few years of our marriage were challenging, and adjusting to the fire service life was one reason.  As we shared that story, a community grew around us who said "Us too.  It's wonderful to find people who understand our life."  And so began, now expanded to FireFamily.Life to reach all of those in the fire service who want to honor their marriages and best support their families.
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