Our Mission

Firefighting is a noble profession.  And also one that takes an emotional toll sometimes at the expense of marriages and family life.  Our Mission is to honor, strengthen, support and encourage fire service marriages and families.   

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Who We Serve...

Whether you are a firefighter or a significant other, male or female, struggling or just wanting to be a part of a good community that is positive, uplifting and supportive of your choices to honor your marriage and family, this is for you.



Our Services...

With professionalism, integrity, top quality programs and a positive environment, we offer:


April Rescue Pack Exchange

  April Sign up for the Rescue Pack Exchange is now open!   The Rescue Pack Exchange Program is designed to pair Fire Wife Sisterhood members who sign up with another member.  They then contact each other to learn more about another Fire Wife, exchange... read more

Join the Fire Wife Sisterhood

The Fire Wife Sisterhood is the largest national community for wives, fiancées and girlfriends of firefighters.  Membership includes access to private communities, marriage mentoring, special group activities for fitness, book clubs, Rescue Pack exchanges and more.

In this community you will find friendship with women who understand your fire family lifestyle.   By joining, your membership fee helps to fund the programs here at FireFamily.Life.

Our goal is for you to have a safe, encouraging place to find fun, friendship and support with other fire wives.

For details on all the benefits of membership, click here.

Fire Wife Sisterhood Posts

The Respect Dare: Week 3

As we end Week 3, I pray that you are not feeling too condemned through the process. There is a lot of self-reflection through this study and it can sometimes feel overwhelming. But without acknowledgment, there would be no change. Continue to seek that change and...

The Respect Dare: Week 2

I hope that by now we are working toward a common goal. Learning to respect our husbands more in loving Christ-like way. Just a reminder that this place is a safe-haven for discussions and I pray you feel transparent to share your journey. Everything we share here...

The Respect Dare

From Greater Impact, a women’s ministry that focuses on delivering encouragement to all of God’s children, “The Respect Dare®  was inspired by a scripture verse in Ephesians which says “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife,...

Care Mail, Volunteer Family Guides and Members Address Updates

Our Fire Wife Care Mail was assembled based on addresses we pulled on December 20th. As a reminder, Care Mail is a twice a year package for Basic and Plus members and 4 times a year for Flame and Giving level members.  (Membership details are here) Volunteer Fire...


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About the Founders, Lori & Dan Mercer

The first few years of our marriage were challenging, and adjusting to the fire service life was one reason.  As we shared that story, a community grew around us who said "Us too.  It's wonderful to find people who understand our life."  And so began FirefighterWife.com, now expanded to FireFamily.Life to reach all of those in the fire service who want to honor their marriages and best support their families.
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