It’s still going to take a while, but after 2 years I just may be getting the hang of this. I’m starting to remember that he’s home and I don’t have to fit doctors and dentist appointments in around my schedule. In fact, I remembered to the point I texted hubby and asked him to make the appointment. I’m so proud of myself.
It’s difficult to remember that I can pass things off to him as he honestly hasn’t been able to take care of these things before. But it’s even more difficult for me to remember that he can schedule it around HIS schedule and I don’t have to have anything to do with it. It’s great to also have him look at his schedule when a field trip slip comes in because I know he truly wants to go. I love that he can spend more time with the kids than he could before. Good for him, truly, it’s awesome.
Now to keep remembering and to keep asking. When you are used to the control, it’s hard to give up. Not because I don’t want to, but just because for 14 years that is how life has been. lol I’m totally open to learning how to redo it though. Just keep kicking me 
