It must have been about 3 weeks ago that hubby went on a really bad call. It happened on a day I was a mess, so I was venting about it all when he got home. It took me a good 30 minutes because it was a really bad day of pain and just hassles as well. Then he comes up with the fact that he went on a baby call. Oh man, here I am going on and on and he went on a baby call.
Anyway, no details are needed. It was bad. No one’s fault, but really bad.
The story has come up multiple times at parties since then. I’ve let it go since it is other FF that are bringing it up and talking about it. I’m not totally in on the healing/dealing process now that he does most of the debriefing at work. But this last BBQ was the last time it will come up. Obviously it’s time for Momma to step in and hammer them. Is it really healthy for him that they keep bringing it up? Is it healthy that every time they do so he brings the picture back up in his head? No, it’s not and they need to be reminded of that I guess.
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