This was one of the funnest girls night’s out I can remember in a long time. There were a ton of us there and no drama. WHAT? I know, no drama I say.
I sadly met some other wives from other shifts that I didn’t know who they were, but I felt I was supposed to so I didn’t say anything. lol Hubby told me who they were when I got let home. All cool, they aren’t anyone we run into regularly obviously or I’d know them. But still, I liked her.
Most incredible thing for me? Our friend needed a sitter cause her hubby is out of town (hubby works with my hubby) Did you keep up with that? lmao Anyway, I threw it out there that they needed someone to watch 4 year old ‘X” while we went to the girls party. Hubby immediately said drop her off. AWWWW, he NEVER watches anyone’s kids. I mean never. I’m teary thinking of it. I do know it’s a different story cause our kids are older and don’t take so much out of us daily, but he just doesn’t volunteer for it.
We’ve hit such a different spot in our life and it’s awesome and more work all at once. We’re at 20 years of being together, just hit 16 years of marriage. WOW, some of our friends have gone through 3 wives in that time. lol K, that’s not really funny, but true!
One cool thing is some of our good friends have been together for a good while as well, but they waited to have kids. Good for them we came into their lives with our 14 & 12 year olds huh? lolol
Today was a great day from start to finish. Kids, hubby, friends, friends kids, it was good from second one. Sure shit went wrong in between a little bit, but the majority was just great and I understand that I really need to hit girls night more often. I’ve known it before, but it’s been so long since I’ve participated fully that I didn’t notice.
Having a party with over 10 close-nit fire wive’s and girlfriends definitely hit it. Even though one of them isn’t even our district, it’s so much fun to have everyone close and know that you can make a joke. We’re all family damn it 
