No doubt the ladies hanging around this site and in our groups are in LOVE with their husbands.

And no doubt there are moments you are stressed, worried, feeling unloved and unlovely.

Marriage is not easy and takes so much constant work.  But worth every moment.

Let’s take 40 days together to focus on our marriages.

Do as little or as much as you are able. Don’t feel overwhelmed, burdened or stressed by it.  Every little bit is helpful.  It will work like this:

1. Watch the movie “Fireproof”  

You may be able to find it for free on TV apps or subscription services.  Or you can Watch it on Amazon Here

 2. Order “The Love Dare” book (or borrow from your library)

     (the second one is the Kindle version)

3. On Monday August 20th we will start with Day 1

I will post a short excerpt each day at The Firefighter Wife Facebook Page as well as in Firefighter Wife Private Facebook Group.   (And possibly here at the blog but let’s see how that goes πŸ™‚ )

4.  Share your thoughts

You can read along.  Skip a day.  Do what works for you.  Then share your thoughts and comments here at the blog, on the facebook page, or in the private group (for only firefighter wives!)

But please share your thoughts!!!!  Don’t underestimate the impact you could make on someone else’s marriage by sharing a challenge, success or revelation you had in your own.  Good discussion will make this so much better.

I especially encourage those who are in a tough place in their marriage to join in and participate.  It may feel like loving on your husband a little more is the last thing you want to do.  I encourage you to watch the movie and think about it.  You will have so much support in this fire wife community.   There are many other online groups who have done The Love Dare.  Here is just one comment I found in one of those groups:

“My dh and I have been going through some really rough times in our marriages and I feel like i no longer should be the one to do these dares. Is that selfish of me?
to summarize our issues we will jsut say he had a date with a girl, which I found their text messgaes, he was fired from his job, and now he is on probation and is now going through treatment for substance abuse.
 im so lost and feel so drug through the mud I feel like i should be the one to make nice and go through these dares… i need support i need guidance. “

Wow.  That’s a lot of hurt.  I will be praying specifically for each of you as you decide on participating in this Love Dare.

 Working with our creative fire life schedule:

If your husband is not with you…..away fighting fires, etc… or you are supposed to do something for him on a day he’s on duty….DO NOT LET THAT GET IN THE WAY!  There is so much goodness here.  Let’s support each other as fire wives and find creative ways around it.  And by the way, if you do Day 3 actually on Day 4, you won’t be kicked out πŸ™‚


We are not excluding you.  If you’d like to participate, you are more than welcome to do so here at the blog and at the Facebook page.

Are you in?

Drop a short comment below and let us know.  Share as much or as little as you’d like.  And don’t forget to follow along on our Facebook Page and if you’d like, in the private group.


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On a mission to be and inspire us all to be better humans, to strengthen fire families & marriages, to nurture and encourage fire wives, do "good business" in all areas of my life and of course, love on my 4 kids.