You can read more details explaining how we are doing the dare here at The Love Dare with FirefighterWife.
Love is thoughtful
How precious also are Your thoughts to me. . . . How vast is the sum of them! If
I should count them, they would outnumber the sand.
Excerpt from The Love Dare Book
“A woman deeply longs for her husband to be thoughtful. It is a key to helping her feel loved. When she speaks, a wise man will listen like a detective to discover the unspoken needs and desires her words imply. If, however, she always has to put the pieces together for him, it steals the opportunity for him to demonstrate that he loves her.
This also explains why women will get upset with their husbands without telling them why. In her mind she’s thinking, “I shouldn’t have to spell it out for him. He should be able to look at the situation and see what’s going on here.” At the same time, he’s grieved because he can’t read her mind and wonders why he’s being punished for a crime he didn’t know he committed.“
Be intentional with your actions. Contact your spouse sometime during the business of the day. Have no agenda other than asking how he or she is doing and if there is anything you could do for them.
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I thank my God in all my remembrance of you.
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