This “Five Day Fill Up” is designed for our Fire Wife Sisterhood to clear their minds and get some perspective.   Getting clear and setting expectations prior to chaos, actually makes less chaos!   Take 5 minutes each day this week to reflect on these topics in the Fire Wife Sisterhood.


5-Day Fill Up – Day 1:  What drives you?



 A drive, passion, goal / mission

What mission / goal / passion are you currently pursuing?  Or wish you could pursue?

Even if being a mom, wife, caretaker, etc. is taking up 97.6% of your day, what drives YOU? Is it a career objective, a hobby, starting a new business, volunteering…

One of my life’s passions is to ___________.

Don’t get stuck here. This isn’t “what I want to be when I grow up”. We can change our minds with that every few years, or sooner. Trust your gut. Open your mind. Picture yourself in your happy place doing something you love. 

What is one of the needs you were put on this earth to fill?   It’s so easy to drop into wife and mother here. Ok, those are a given.  But your heavy mothering years are only about 15-20 of the 70-80 years you have on this planet.   So go beyond that.

What talents were you given that match to a need in the world?  One of my favorite sayings is this….. God didn’t put a dream on your heart without also giving you the means to achieve it.

If you’ve been feeling a little flat lately, stuck in a rut, maybe you haven’t been dreaming enough?


{Go to: Day 1 – Day 2 – Day 3Day 4Day 5}


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Jessie -

A small town girl from Southwest Georgia who happens to value your marriage as much as she does her own. She is married to a firefighter who was a volunteer for several years, then transitioned into a career fireman the same month they married in 2008, and he is now a Captain at his full-time Department. They have two daughters, have been in the FFW family since 2012 and know marriage takes a lot of work, even when it's in the best seasons.