Ladies and gentlemen, we know that we find our spouse attractive… so why wouldn’t anyone else?  

We don’t often want to talk about some of the harsh truths of the world, but we have to.  Today I am grateful for all of the times, known and unknown, that my spouse chose fidelity over lust… in thoughts, words and actions.

Find gratitude for every time your spouse chose you and keeps choosing you.

If this is a sore spot in your marriage, as it is in many, we’ve got a few great posts for you. So keep reading, friends.  While some of our earlier posts were directly to Firefighter Wives, the advice is solid advice and applicable to any spouse.  So here are a few resources for you to take and make fit your relationship as needed.

He Cheated – Do I Try to Make it Work?”
Think Your Marriage Is Over?
Facebooking the Opposite Sex

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We just get it...

12187964_1060929027280805_8376574081505984256_oNo matter if you’re that giddy girlfriend or that veteran fire wife, at some point we all hit tough seasons.  Sometimes these tough seasons are due to a war being waged on our marriages from the outside.  You can fight this, and you can win! The 24-7 Communities offer a safe place.  The Fire Wife Sisterhood for women married to or dating a firefighter and The Honor Guard for men devoted to their spouse.  Look into joining one of our communities today

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Jessie -

A small town girl from Southwest Georgia who happens to value your marriage as much as she does her own. She is married to a firefighter who was a volunteer for several years, then transitioned into a career fireman the same month they married in 2008, and he is now a Captain at his full-time Department. They have two daughters, have been in the FFW family since 2012 and know marriage takes a lot of work, even when it's in the best seasons.