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NOTE:  Links available at time of posting. Some of the following links may no longer be available, but you still get some great ideas! 

If you’re still reading, I promise this will not be TOO graphic but there is absolutely nothing wrong with promoting a healthy sexual relationship with your spouse. That is exactly what this gift guide is for and we hope you find something that suites your tastes!  We understand that everyone’s comfort levels are different, no need to try anything suggested unless you and your spouse are completely comfortable.  There is surely something for everyone here.

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engaged marriage

Dr. Ruth 1

 Top 10 Ways To Initiate Sex

These Proven Ways Have Worked For Thousands Of Couples Around The World

Bring Back the Romance Workshop

With the right attitude and some solid advice, you can definitely recapture those giddy feelings.

Dr. Ruth’s Sex After 50

Revving Up the Romance, Passion & Excitement with Dr. Ruth K. Westheimer, world-famous sex therapist.

sex checks

Spicey Dice

card game


Sex Checks

The checkbook includes 30 IOUs and 30 UOMEs, making it easy for you to get back what you give.  Don’t worry, they aren’t ALL sex related.

Spicy Dice

These dice are full of spice!  Feeling lucky? Take a roll and see what to do, where and how to your spouse!

53 Sex Positions
Cards for Couples

Prepare for 53 sex positions of fun, new, and exciting sex positions in thiscouple’s card game.

The Ultimate Intimacy Pack

The Dating Divas want to add spice into your regular date night routine– ALL YEAR LONG!

Kama Sutra Kit 1

chocolate paint

blind fold


Kama Sutra Kit

You don’t need to travel to enjoy this fabulous kit!

Chocolate Body Paint

Indulge your artistic muse with this decadently rich edible body paint.

Satin Blindfold

YEAS Satin Eye Mask Blindfold

Feather Ticklers

Great for those who fancy some light, tactile play


massage oil

body dust

massage candle

K-Y Yours + Mine

His excites. Hers delights. Together feel them ignite.

Massage Oil Set

Give and receive great aromatic massages with this oil set infused with natural essential oils, skin-smoothing emollients and nourishing Vitamin E.

Edible Body Dust

Kama Sutra Honey Dust Sweet Honeysuckle complete with feather duster.

Massage Oil Candle

Wax-free and they naturally burn at a low temperature so they won’t burn the skin.

panty set


red lingerie set

robe set

long pillow

wedge pillow

Position Pillow

Helpful for a variety of different positions.

Liberator Hipster

Sculpted to follow the contours of the human form


Coconut Oil

What the?! Yes, the Fire Up Your Love Life group has exposed this hidden secret.  Coconut oil isn’t just used for cooking anymore.  It  is said to be a great base for massage and even dare I repeat, personal lubricant…  Be sure it’s pure and unrefined and I’d go with organic for extra measure.


If this isn’t spicy enough for you,
Visit the Amazon Sexual Wellness Store HERE!

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Jessie -

A small town girl from Southwest Georgia who happens to value your marriage as much as she does her own. She is married to a firefighter who was a volunteer for several years, then transitioned into a career fireman the same month they married in 2008, and he is now a Captain at his full-time Department. They have two daughters, have been in the FFW family since 2012 and know marriage takes a lot of work, even when it's in the best seasons.