by Lori Mercer - WifeOnFire | Aug 23, 2016 | Behavioral Health, Communication, Difficult Calls, Especially For The Fire Wife, Everyday, For the Firefighters, PTSD
You can feel the air turn tense before a word is even said. You know it was a bad shift. Something must have happened to make such a drastic change in your firefighter. Maybe he is angry, or silent, or sad….you just know something isn’t right. Do you ask...
by Lori Mercer - WifeOnFire | Jun 27, 2016 | Behavioral Health, Best of Fire Family Life, Communication, Difficult Calls, Everyday, From the Firefighter Perspective, Irritability, Wife Advice
This article is so important because we’ve all been there yet so few admit it and talk about it. There is no shame in relating to this or even sharing this post. You never know who is suffering and needs these words. Let’s just start with these words straight from the...
by marklamplugh | Mar 9, 2016 | Behavioral Health, Everyday, Fire Family Life, For the Firefighters, Guest Posts, PTSD
Most of us keep a pretty regular schedule. We go to sleep and wake up at pretty much the same time every day. We have our weekday routine and our weekend routine. Our bodies are keeping track of our routines as well—physically and mentally. So many of our...
by Lori Mercer - WifeOnFire | Mar 5, 2016 | Behavioral Health, Everyday, For the Firefighters
If you have been following the journey of this firefighter committing to his marriage, career, and family by getting sober, you know how powerful his story is. If you need to catch up on the previous posts, read Part 1 here and Part 2 here. DAY 14 I think I know why...
by Lori Mercer - WifeOnFire | Mar 3, 2016 | Behavioral Health, Everyday, For the Firefighters
If you have not read Part 1 of this powerful story, click here to catch up. Below is a story of one firefighter who took sobriety into his own hands for 21 days and documented his journey to a healthier firefighter, father, and husband. DAY 6 Duty Day. Normally this...
by Lori Mercer - WifeOnFire | Jul 8, 2015 | Behavioral Health, Everyday, For the Firefighters, PTSD
Be Honest. Be Real. It’s the false bravado “I’m a bigger bad ass than anything this job can throw at me” mentality that’s causing dudes to irresponsibly drink, leave their wives and kids or worse yet, eat a bullet. Talking about how you...
