Especially for the Fire Wife
We all love our men in uniforms with their giving and fearless hearts. Some days it is easier to express and show this love than others. We deal with unique challenges as the wife of a firefighter. We must learn to juggle schedules, manage the household and children on our own, many times while working our own jobs as well. Our firefighters depend on us to hold everything down while they are at the station. Here is a great place to join other fire wives in laughter, advice, stories, tips, and encouragement. Find what you need to be the best fire wife for your husband and kids.
How Marriage Comparison is Stealing Your Joy
This Guest Post is brought to you by Rachel Mellencamp. (Twitter: @rachelmcamp and IG: @rachelmellencamp) She been married for 3 years to her Firefighter. She says she is still figuring it out. (Aren't we all 😉 ) She also has a passion for firefighters and their...
When Fire Life Meets Fire Wife Entrepreneurship: how to stay married
Since the beginning of Firefighter Wife, we’ve spent a lot of time helping wives understand what it’s like to be married to a firefighter and how to make the most of the fire life. But we’ve also been clear, you are WAY more than a fire wife. You’ve got...
The Promotional Process Stole Our Christmas
Last Christmas day, my husband sat across the room and said he felt like this Christmas didn't really feel like Christmas. He hadn't really seen any of the gifts that I had been scrambling around the past month to buy for the kids. And myself and our teen daughter...
Firefighter Family Photos You’ll Cherish For Generations
Even on the worst days of politics and drama on facebook, an adorable family photo, engagement photo or baby photo is going to make you smile. Especially when it includes a firefighter family! Photographic memories are so near and dear and precious to us all....
Join Us For The Power of a Praying Fire Wife
Join us in the Christian Fire Wife Sisterhood as we pray through the Power of Praying Wife together. Marriages are so under attack. Evil forces are constantly trying to pull us apart, distort our words, plant seeds of doubt and destroy us with addictions. But we have...
How To Watch a Fire Movie With Your Firefighter
Firefighter movies. You cannot escape them as a fire wife, nor should you in my opinion. Whether it's watching live burns on Youtube videos or the ritualistic watching of Ladder 49 or Backdraft (with all the commentary as to what's real and accurate and...
What to Say to Your Firefighter When He’s Had a Bad Call
You can feel the air turn tense before a word is even said. You know it was a bad shift. Something must have happened to make such a drastic change in your firefighter. Maybe he is angry, or silent, or sad....you just know something isn't right. Do you ask about it?...
Honor and Commitment – Online Book Study
Finally: the resource you need to live with Honor and Commitment,both at home and on the job. This book study is for everyone. Firefighters, fire wives, anyone in the fire service. You can participate in this study alone or create a group study with...
Finding Fire Wife Friends
A friend who just "gets it" Whether that one friend who just "gets it" is in the fire life or not, hang tight to that friend! So often in this life, not to mention all the seasons through this life, we are crazy busy and our time as a family is treasured, and our...
Things You Wish You Knew When You Were a New Fire Wife
Shift Night Chatter: Things You Wish You Knew As A New Fire wife There are so many things I can think back on and wish I knew when I was a brand new fire wife. This was the inspiration for this week's Shift Night Chatter and it struck a chord as we had nearly 500...
Wedding Planning {for the Fire Bride}
So, you're planning a wedding. First things first. There are SO many helpful DIY tips and tools out there to help the self-sufficient Bride. We've found our favorites from the big names we all love to those charming well put together Printables, and even...
Today is the Day You Reignite the Love Fires
Today is always a good day to reignite those love fires. And on this day (Friday April 11th) you have 2 good ways to do so. #1 It's the last day to get access to all 6 Dating Divas Marriage Makeover Conference Speakers for only $37 - Click here to register And it's...
Announcing the Brand New Fire Wife Academy
Announcing the first program from the all new Fire Wife Academy We've listened to fire wives for the past year tell us about your worries and fears and concerns that ONLY fire wives can understand. And we answered your questions over and over on Facebook...
10 Things I Learned in One Year as a Fire Wife Blogger
This weekend marks exactly one year since I took over running this website and posted my introductory post here. Since then we've grown by over 10,000 fans on our Facebook page and 1200 members in our Private Wives group. Most importantly, I've learned a lot of life...
Want to know the secret to being a Firefighter Wife? Be Fire Wife Strong.
We don't walk into the Fire Wife Life equipped with everything we need to effortlessly transition into the fire life. Some of you do manage pretty well, but some of us do not make the transistion so easily. Whether it's a newlywed who had no idea what the...
Wholesale Deals on Great Clothes? Time to Treat Mama!
The Fire Wife community is always the 3rd thing on my mind (behind God and my family only!) and I know how much we all like a deal. Lately I've been "test buying" with some merchants whom I think have FAB-U-LOUS deals and I would recommend. Here's one called...
Great Dresses Online RIGHT NOW!!
Here is our latest post from our Fire Wife Fashion expert, Mia. Hello, I am happy to hare with you today some great dresses / deals online right now. By the way, I never officially said THANK YOU for welcoming me at Flame Fest! It was such an Awesome time. I'm...
Spice Up Your Monday! Making Your Wardrobe Fantasies A Reality!
Let's make Monday something exciting! I feel that it is! Everyday is exciting! We wake up and we are alive! I know how corny that sounds, but corny things are also usually the truest things too, aren't they? : ) Here are some images that have not yet let my mind....
STUNNING Dresses Under $40 that you NEED to See!
On my last article , I shared with you the best dresses under $20! Today, I am going to share with you some STUNNING dresses - all under $40 - Dig In, Have Fun & Get ready to look More Gorgeous than Ever! Let's start out with a great basic: For $29 this...
The Best Summer Dresses RIGHT NOW for under $20
Let's Jump Right Into It! The Best Summer Dresses Available online right now for under $20! At 13.80 This Dress from Forever21 packs a serious punch. If you could sow on straps with this that would be best, other than that, lovely colors, a great high waist,...
What We can Learn about Style from Women Over 60 – Breaking The Rules!
You can read all the fashion magazines that you want, but when it comes to style those who have the most experience in it, have the most to share. I came across the blog, Advanced Style about 4 years ago and it has been my absolute favorite blog on the entire web ever...
5 of THE BEST Spring Looks To LOVE (and HOW to get Them!!!)
The first day of Spring (March 20th) is less than a month away! To make sure that you're ready with some Fun, GORGEOUS Spring fashion Ideas, I've put together for you 5 of THE BEST Spring looks to LOVE and what you can DO to get them! Here they are! # 1 - Rock a Hair...
10 Sassy one Piece Swimsuits under $70
10 Sassy One Piece Swimsuits Under $70 There is something so Sexy and Irresistible about a one piece suit! I've heard many guys share how they think one pieces are so attractive! - Maybe it's the Mystery - Maybe it's the Bay Watch Fantasy Whatever it is! It is...
A Personal Post on Dressing Up and Standing Out
Do you ever have times when you dream of what you "will" wear and how you "will" look? You imagine yourself in the most gorgeous black gown with dangling earrings and a sparkling necklace and with stunning makeup and luscious hair. So, what happens to that dream?...
Marriage Story – A Sea Apart
Brenda and Cory Bouldin have been married for two years. Cory is currently a contract firefighter, overseas. How did you meet? We were an eHarmony success story. As we were talking on eHarmony, I was put on an ambulance for ride time in the same county he was a...
Fire Wife Hot Spot {Cori Fuller}
Ok, so I am throwing Hot Spots off the Monday schedule! Meet CORI. I have met Cori in person. I absolutely ADORE her and her husband is pretty awesome too and apparently works as much as mine does! I met them at Flame Fest 2014 and I wish I lived closer to this...
Fire Wife Hot Spot {Kate Scott}
Introducing, Kate Scott, Fire Wife Sisterhood member. I had the privilege in getting to know Kate better and it was hard trying to decide which questions we were using! Kate is married to Kevin Scott, who is on the Buffalo Fire Department in Buffalo, NY, their...
Fire Wife Hot Spot: Denise Walsh
Today we're going to hear from Denise Walsh. Denise is married to John and he is a FT paramedic for Palmer Ambulance, a volunteer on North Brookfield, and is currently trying to get on Hardwick FD for volunteer FF. They live in Hardwick, MA. They have been married...
Fire Wife Hot Spot – Michele Yarbrough
Today in my hot seat is an Atlanta, Georgia sister. Yet again one of the many I met last year at Flame Fest. She has such a big heart! I'm going to let her intro herself, so keep reading to learn more about this Firefighter Wife! My FF's name is Dave and he has...
Fire Wife Hot Spot – Susan Stevens
Today in the Hot Seat we have Susan Stevens. Susan is a long time member of the Fire Wife Sisterhood and has been following with Firefighter Wife for years. She is another wife I had the privilidge of meeting at Flame Fest last year and look forward to seeing her...
Fire Wife Hot Spot – Jill Tho
Jill is a Fire Wife Sisterhood member. She is married to Tua Tho and luckily she added in pronunciation with my interview because I would have never guessed it to be TWO TOE..(here I have been for the last year thinking TWO-UH THOUGH in my head!). Tua is a full-time...
Firefighters Don’t!
Are you counting down the days until you can get outside? This has been one crazy tough winter this year. People everywhere are feeling the Winter Blues. Are you ready to break out and feel like you're suffering from Cabin Fever? Lyn wrote THIS POST yesterday to help...
Fire Wife Hot Spot: Danielle Cascella
Meet Danielle. She lives on the "main land" in Manahawkin, NJ. Her fiance, Matthew, runs a boat hauling business full-time and is also a Lieutenant with Surf City Volunteer Fire Company in Long Beach Island, NJ! He would love to go full-time paid in the future....
Boxing – A Real Kick in the Butt!
As a firewife, we all want to look our best for our firefighters, right? I decided it would be a good idea to sign up for a local boxing class. I was very excited about going, and prepared for the class. I had it all under control. This would be easy and fun, and I...
March #servefirst Do the WOD for Firefighter Fitness
Please welcome our guest writer and #servefirst partner for March, Larry Manasco of 555Fitness.com. #servefirst is our first of the month reminder to be givers first and contribute to a good cause. This month the cause is the fitness of our firefighters. If you...
Fit Fire Wife {Thanksgiving Challenge}
Thanksgiving is slowly sneaking up on us and the food pictures on social media are already beginning! Everything looks so great, I know that I am looking forward to the feast but... Our Fit Fire Wife fire wife, Beth McDowell, has a new challenge for us just in time...
Fit Fire Wife October Recap
Our Fit Fire Wife lead Beth has our October Challenge recap! Ladies, you're doing great!!! Please see below from Beth for exact numbers. <3 Jessie October Challenge In August we had 25 ladies join and finish the 50 mile challenge. These 25 ladies walked a...
Fit Fire Wife {November Challenge}
Let's give our Fire Wife Sisterhood Member, Beth McDowell, a round of applause for bringing us challenges and all of her hard work in our Fit Fire Wife group! She's got us ready for November! If you're NOT a Fire Wife Sisterhood member, be sure you check out our...
Women’s Health {healthy weights}
Being active and healthy is more than a number on the scale but if you find yourself tipping the scales to an unhealthy weight, we urge you to make a goal to reach a healthier weight... the right way. Our Fit Fire Wife group has been stepping up their monthly mileage...
Fit Fire Wife October Challenge
We have such a great group of ladies keeping us encouraged n the Fit Fire Wife program of The Fire Wife Sisterhood. August we were all challenged to walk, run, jog, bike, MOVE FIFTY miles. 50, less than two miles per day. Even if we didn't reach the 50 (I didn't) we...
Fit Fire Wife Sign Up
Hello Sister! You're on your way to a better you! Please fill out the form below to be added to the Fit Fire Wife group. *If you have not become a registered member of the Fire Wife Sisterhood yet, do that first HERE.
My 50 Mile Pledge
FirefighterWife.com's Fit Fire Wife is challenging YOU! It's August and we're bringing you a CHALLENGE! Yes, we went there and we challenge YOU to put in 50 miles by the end of August. Walk it, run it or bike it...when and where you can. Get out and get moving! It...
Finding Fire Wife Friends
A friend who just "gets it" Whether that one friend who just "gets it" is in the fire life or not, hang tight to that friend! So often in this life, not to mention all the seasons through this life, we are crazy busy and our time as a family is treasured, and our...
Things You Wish You Knew When You Were a New Fire Wife
Shift Night Chatter: Things You Wish You Knew As A New Fire wife There are so many things I can think back on and wish I knew when I was a brand new fire wife. This was the inspiration for this week's Shift Night Chatter and it struck a chord as we had nearly 500...
Things You Wish You Knew When You Were a New Fire Wife
Shift Night Chatter: Things You Wish You Knew As A New Fire wife There are so many things I can think back on and wish I knew when I was a brand new fire wife. This was the inspiration for this week's Shift Night Chatter and it struck a chord as we had nearly 500...
New Fire Wife Sisterhood Basic Member Registration
Welcome!!! We can't wait to have you join us in the Fire Wife Sisterhood Community where as a basic member you receive free access to our private communities plus care mail every 6 months and some great discounts and private content. (For the complete list of...
{a new fire wife} Jumping in with Both Feet
Today I'm going to introduce myself and tell you more about my life as a newish firefighter wife. You ready for this?? When Matt made the decision to be a fireman, I fully supported it. He was a little hesitant to make the plunge (he toyed around with the idea for a...
Questions from a Soon-to-Be Firefighter Wife
Source: google.com via Lori on Pinterest It's only been a few weeks that I've been managing this site so far. First let me just say that you all are A-MAZING! I knew there were others out there having the same troubles I do but these are like too many scary...
Real Fire Wife Diaries
Our Fire Family, Apart But Not Alone for the Holidays
When our firefighters are out there giving, it means we are giving too. Our time together, that is. Firefighter wives across the country are home on holidays cleaning, prepping, wrangling children, keeping up the holiday cheer while their firefighters are at the...
20 Years – Thank You for the Clarity
This post by Michael Morse has been circulating hot and heavy this week and for good reason. It's spot on. Tough words to say and to hear because they carry much sad truth. A depiction of some of the saddest stories of humanity right now. And the message is a...
Surviving the Academy {from FireWifey}
Last month I promised a post about getting through the Academy. I planned to write all about the food that I made, all the hours I cleaned and did laundry, and in general how I was amazing and had this down like a pro. Ha! That is definitely not this post. I mean, I...
The Curse of the Ride Along
This post comes to you from Michelle Cohen, a Fire Wife Sisterhood member and California Firefighter Wife. She shares with us the not-so-adventurous ride along she recently encountered with her Firefighter/Medic husband. Thanks for sharing, Michelle! ~Jessie They...
{a new fire wife} Jumping in with Both Feet
Today I'm going to introduce myself and tell you more about my life as a newish firefighter wife. You ready for this?? When Matt made the decision to be a fireman, I fully supported it. He was a little hesitant to make the plunge (he toyed around with the idea for a...
Diaries of Real Fire Wives – Day 5 – Reggie
Today wraps up Reggies week of diary posts. She sure shed some light on having that extra hectic schedule of a working mom. Thank you for sharing with us Reggie. <3 Jessie A day in the life of a full-time working-lawyer- mom married to a fire Captain. Plan for...
Diaries of Real Fire Wives – Day 4 – Reggie
A day in the life of a full-time working-lawyer- mom married to a fire Captain. ~ Day 4~ Plan for today: Open Rescue Pack Changing of the Guard (Husband gets home from 24 Hour shift – I leave for work) Work Family Time (sort of) Thursday 6:15am (technically...
Diaries of Real Fire Wives – Day 3 – Reggie
A day in the life of a full-time working-lawyer- mom married to a fire Captain. ~ Day 3 ~ Plan for today: Pack Company Conference FaceTime with Son before flight home Talk to Husband before flight home 6:00am – Wednesday Well, looks like I will end this business trip...
Diaries of Real Fire Wives – Day 2 – Reggie
I totally forgot to into Reggie yesterday! Reggie is a fire wife and a working mom in the big world of corporate lawyers. She travels often and has a wonderful husband who supports her career as much as she supports his. I love Reggie, such a strong, hard working...
Taking Care of You
Top Things to Do When Your Firefighter is on Shift
Our Time Together is Kind of a Big Deal... How do you prioritize your schedules when your firefighter is on shift? Do you have certain things that only happen on a shift day/night so you can make the most of every moment when they get home? On last week's Shift Night...
On Haters, Quitting and Positive Change With Social Media (Who’s in?)
YOU are part of an amazing change in our world. Good eventually prevails. Yes it does. Believe in that or you will lose your mind looking around at all the ugly and the hurting. But YOU are part of the good. Keep reading if you are tired of social media being...
Five-Day Fill Up {DAY 5} Self Belief
5 minutes a day for 5 days is not a long time. It’s just enough to tickle some ideas and open your eyes to some changes you may need in your life. And some of you may have used these last few days to create a giant list of things you *must* do in your...
Five-Day Fill Up {Day 4} Positive People
Fill Up with Positive people Who are the positive people who believe in you? Who in your life (physically and virtually) is filling and building you up? Who leaves you inspired and encouraged and feeling capable and thinking clearly? These people should be able...
Five-Day Fill Up {Day 3} Mental Energy
Mental energy. Not much commentary for today’s topic. We all have mental energy, but what we do with it is up to us. Walk through the next few questions and reflect on where you are spending mental energy in wasteful ways. What is occupying space in your...
Five-Day Fill Up {Day 2} Physical Energy
Physical Energy - Nutrition, Fitness, Any health issues holding you back? Sometimes I feel so down and not on top of my day. And then I realize, it’s not “me”, it’s simply that I do not physically feel good. When you aren’t physically feeling good, you can’t be at...
Five-Day Fill Up {Day 1} Your Drive
This "Five Day Fill Up" is designed for our Fire Wife Sisterhood to clear their minds and get some perspective. Getting clear and setting expectations prior to chaos, actually makes less chaos! Take 5 minutes each day this week to reflect on these topics...
Women’s Health {the monthly cycle}
If my husband stumbles across this post he is going to be reading, shaking his head yes and saying "THAT IS YOU!". I know, I know. This being a woman thing is for the birds sometimes. It isn't exactly a walk in the park. Daily life can be drastically...
Women’s Health {depression}
Pay attention to your mental health Did you know? Mental and physical health are connected. Taking care of your mental health can help you feel better physically, and taking care of your body is important for your mental health. Each year, 1 in 5 women in the...
Work That Works
The "sweet spot" is when this "life formula" adds up: Committed Marriage + Physical Health + Mental Health + Happy Family Life + Your Work Is also Your Passion (+ your personal cup of tea hobby and interest) = The Sweet Spot Of course that never adds up perfectly. ...
Creative Work Options for Fire Families
You’re likely to spend 40 years of your life in some form of employment. And, those will be the best hours of each of your days that you spend doing “work”. No matter how much you love your work, once you have children, you realize your most important title in life...
It’s a New Year of Hope Working Mama!
{In 2015, I left a 22 year career in a M-F 8-5 job that I didn't hate but was constantly tearing my heart in two directions. I am so blessed to be in a season where I can be home more for my 4 kids and still be contributing all my purpose and talents in a way that...
3 things that will make a mom never want to work another day her entire life – and how to get through those moments
I've been a woman all my life (ha ha!). I've always had a job since age 16. Therefore I call myself a "working woman" and by that I mean no disrespect to stay at home moms. And I've birthed 4 children while maintaining my employment starting with my millennium...
Busy or Prioritized?
"There is no one busy in this world, it's always about priorities. You will always find time for the things you feel important." People always say to me they don't know how I do it. 4 (busy active years) kids in hockey, soccer, scouts (I'm the leader), full time...
Worst Day of the Year for Working Moms
Before I even start, let me clarify. All mom's work like mad. But in this case, I'm using the term "working moms" to refer to mom's who work outside the home.The worst day of the year for me is the first day of summer vacation. It's not because I'm dreading having...