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Whether you feel private about it or not, intimacy is an important aspect in a thriving marriage. Chapter 12 opens up the conversation for you to consider anticipation and confidence, and also pornography and sexless marriage. No matter how you feel, this chapter is certain to spark some hot conversation!

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Holiday Exhaustion – How Will It Impact Your Marriage?
Can you feel it? The bloat of stuffing and the turkey just fading away. The jingling bells of Christmas and the holiday season coming right for you? The holidays are officially here and hollering merrily that it is time to decide what WILL be the perfect gift for...
Keep the Love Fires Burning Over the Distance
"Absence makes the heart grow fonder, but it sure makes the rest of you lonely." Charles M. Schultz I am going to be honest, there were times I wasn't sure we would make it through and still be together in the end. But there were also times when I was flying...
How To Watch a Fire Movie With Your Firefighter
Firefighter movies. You cannot escape them as a fire wife, nor should you in my opinion. Whether it's watching live burns on Youtube videos or the ritualistic watching of Ladder 49 or Backdraft (with all the commentary as to what's real and accurate and what's...
Fire Up Your Love Life Gift Guide
***DISCLAIMER: The following content may not safe for work, public places or children. It contains our Fire Up Your Love Life Gift Guide. This gift guide is meant to Fire Up Your Love Life and bring a closer connection with your spouse. Proceed at your own risk 😉 ...
Filling Up the Love Tank Before Shift
Do you ever wish your firefighter could read your mind about what you want the day or night before he goes back on shift? Well, wish granted!This question came straight from firefighters to their spouses."What is the best help or prep we (the husbands) can do before...
Think Pornography Isn’t Affecting You?
Russell Brand. Way to step up. Who better to tell us the damage done by pornography than someone who's been there, done that and shares his open and honest viewpoint. “Our attitudes towards sex have become warped and perverted,” Brand ranted, “and have deviated...
A Firefighter Marriage Story – Surviving Infidelity
Meet Christy and Chad. Married 19 years. Known each other most of their lives and dated 5 years before getting married. Here is their inspiring story of making marriage amazing. How did you meet? We met when we were 13 or 14 at our local skating rink, I actually...
Top 5 Signs Your Husband Needs to “Know His Numbers”
You know what makes relationships so difficult? There can be a million and one reasons why one of you is "off" and two million and one chances for the partner to not notice. Was it something I said? Boy, that topic always sets us off! He sure is extra grumpy today....
Take the 7 Days of Sex Challenge
Want to get your husband's attention? Let's talk about sex. You, however, may be feeling like two ships passing in the night wondering where the physical intimacy has gone or if it will ever come back again. Maybe it is firefighter academy, starting a new...
Married…but dating.
Are you married but dating? Still dating your spouse that is. There are three things that sometimes prevent us all from having a “date night” with our firefighters weather we are married or in a long term relationship. We had this come up over and over again. Time,...