Less Divorce.  Stronger Fire Marriages.

Divorce is something we do not recommend to anyone without first fighting like mad to save your marriage. Marriage isn’t easy.  Throw in the complications of the fire life and it sometimes feels impossible.  Long hours at the job.  A “second family”.  Stressful calls.  Sleepless nights.  PTSD.  Interrupted communications.  Your schedule not matching the rest of the world’s.  Missed holidays.  The list goes on.

Get Connected with Those Who “Get” the Fire Life.

It may seem like your friends and family don’t get the fire life. They may not understand why you want to keep your schedule free on the days your firefighter is home. They may not understand why you take your phone everywhere with you. They may not understand lonely nights and holidays when your firefighter is on shift. 

Join the Fire Wife Sisterhood (women) or the Honor Guard (men) to find the support, friendships, and laughter from others who understand this crazy, amazing fire life we live.

We are here to Rescue and Strengthen Fire Marriages

Here are some resources to help you work through those tough spots.

*Disclaimer:  If you are being physically or verbally abused, we want you to seek help immediately.  Try for immediate support.


Weekend to Remember

Great marriages don’t just happen. Be intentional with yours.

Find out what over 3 million couples worldwide have experienced at FamilyLife’s Weekend to Remember. It’s your turn to make a great marriage happen.

FamilyLife welcomes everyone to Weekend to Remember:  the divorced, the on-the-verge of divorce, the deliriously-in-love, the newlyweds, the wise, seasoned couple. We speak to those who are happy and to those who are broken.

For every 5 weekends booked using our GroupName: 247COMMITMENT we will receive a Free Weekend to offer a couple who need a weekend to remember.

Learn more by clicking HERE.


Do “The Love Dare”


Are you in a marriage slump? Or just missing the excitement in your marriage? Watch the Fireproof movie and do the 40 day Love Dare devotional book either alone or with your spouse.  Either way your marriage will end up in a better place.

You can sign up to receive a daily Love Dare email Firefighter Wife style to follow along.  Click here to register


 Read the Best Firefighter Marriage Blog Posts

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Click HERE for our view on The 5 Love Languages.

We think it’s an easy read and a must do for every marriage so that you learn how to love each other in the BEST way.

Read the all time favorite blog posts:


Open up and Talk


Whether it’s dealing with pure physical or emotional exhaustion,  daily struggles with depression and anxiety increased by job stresses, broken trust, infidelity, or you are struggling in your marriage period, you don’t need to go through it alone.


Click here to connect with Talkspace today!




Are you in a marriage crisis?

See our current marriage partner at Save My Marriage Today.


There are topics that are too big to handle on our own.

Go to counseling if you need to (we’ve all done it).  There are topics we have to tell you straight up that we can’t diagnose and counsel you through in our 24-7 COMMITMENT community.   Even if your spouse doesn’t want to go with you, go on your own.  It works.  I’ve been there on multiple occasions and I would bet that 95% of all the other Fire Wives will tell you the same thing.

Call your department.  Ask about an EAP program (Employee Assistance Program).  Call a local church with a counseling center.

If you don’t like the first counselor you go to, try another.   Just go.

Never Stop Learning About Marriage

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 Click Here for Our Favorite Books for Marriage Support





Re-ignite the Flames in the Bedroom!

Whether you are more on the wild side or the conservative side, this eBook will light a fire in your bedroom for you sure.  There is something for everyone.

And for those of you who may not be hearing this at your church, I’m a Jesus freak and I’ve read Song of Solomon. And I’m certain he wants us to be having amazingly hot sex with our husbands.  If somethings broken there, time to fix it.

Click here to get your free copy of 12 Steamy Days with your Firefighter



When all else fails, Work on You

What if he doesn’t want to work on your marriage?  It won’t hurt anything for you to work on yourself.   What’s going on in your head?  How do you physically feel?  Get active.  Read a book.  Pray. Join one of our programs here online.

We can’t fully engage in a healthy relationship unless we’ve got our feet squarely on the ground and our head on straight as well.  In the moments when I was most frustrated with my marriage, I had to turn my focus on being a better me so I’d have the patience and endurance to love him in the midst of his storm.